Monica Young was this week jailed for the sexual abuse of the young student. Photo / NCA
WARNING: Graphic content about sexual abuse.
It started with a dare.
"You don't have the balls," Monica Young told her 14-year-old student as she provoked him to give her a hug inside a Sydney school classroom.
Today, Young sits in a prison where she will remain until at least October 30, 2023.
The disgraced former teacher was this week jailed after she pleaded guilty to sexually assaulting a teenage student across a one-month period last year.
On her Instagram account, which is still present on the social media platform, her profile photo depicts her with her then-fiance and her bio simply reads "Engaged" with a ring emoji.
She subsequently invited the boy to add her on Snapchat, but it came with a warning.
"The offender told the victim he could not tell anyone about the messaging," a statement of agreed facts said.
Relationship rapidly escalated
The pair continued to communicate via social media and at school, where she would encourage the victim to hug her.
When he did not, she goaded him that he did not have "the balls" to do it.
After a few days, he relented, and as he hugged her in a classroom, he grabbed her buttocks.
From there, there was a rapid escalation in their relationship. After communicating via Snapchat for another two to three days, their messages soon became sexual.
"Send one," came Young's message to the victim, asking him for a nude photo.
The victim replied: "Do you want to see?"
When Young said "yeah", the boy sent his teacher a photo of his genitalia.
"Now that I've sent one, you send one back," the boy said.
Several days later, she replied with a picture of her genitalia and soon after photos of her breasts and a video in which she played with her bare nipples.
The conversation continued as they spoke about sexual acts they wanted to perform on each other.
'Give me a kiss'
The NSW District Court this week heard how soon after the message exchange, the pair arranged to meet in an English classroom during the lunch break.
There, the relationship went from online to physical.
Young sat him down at a desk and encouraged him to touch her genitalia.
"You don't have the balls," she said, repeating her earlier words.
The victim rubbed her on her genitalia over her clothes before Young grabbed the boy's hand and placed it inside her pants, the first offence for which she was jailed.
As she held it in her hand, a Snapchat message alert popped up on the screen. She opened it.
It was a picture message from Young, followed by a text message asking why the boy had not replied.
The mother confronted her son, who claimed his teacher was helping him with assignments.
A few days later, the mother caught the boy making phone calls.
When she took the phone, she discovered his last two interactions were five and 19-minute calls with a Snapchat account named "Mon".
As she sat on the bed, a picture message from Young came rolling in. It depicted her, fully clothed, lying on her bed with the caption: "I'm waiting for you."
"I am extremely embarrassed and ashamed that I have to write this letter to your honour," Young said during a sentence hearing last month.
"I am unable to fully express how sorry I am for my actions.
"I cannot imagine how [the victim] and his family felt."
Boy's life ruined
The court heard the boy's life has been "ruined" and upturned in almost every respect.
He was forced to leave the school after his fellow students discovered what had happened. He is now attending TAFE and working.
Judge Traill read portions of his powerful victim impact statement, in which he said he had regarded Young as a "cool teacher" and someone he believed cared about him.
He reported feeling as though he had let his family down.
"The victim states his relationship with his parents has also been ruined and his parents blame each other for what happened," Judge Traill said.
"And they are always arguing.
"The victim has had trouble sleeping at night as he tries to relive everything to work out what went wrong."
The teenager said he felt like he had been forced to grow up, his dreams of being a physiotherapist had been ruined, and he had missed out on life, the court heard.
"He says he struggles to smile about anything any more," Judge Traill said.
Young was this week sentenced to four years and nine months in jail, with a non-parole period of two years and five months.
She will be eligible for release in October 2023.
SEXUAL HARM - DO YOU NEED HELP?
If it's an emergency and you feel that you or someone else is at risk, call 111. If you've ever experienced sexual assault or abuse and need to talk to someone contact the Safe to Talk confidential crisis helpline on: • Text 4334 and they will respond • Email support@safetotalk.nz • Visit https://safetotalk.nz/contact-us/ for an online chat Alternatively contact your local police station - click here for a list. If you have been abused, remember it's not your fault.