Hemi Goodwin-Burke's parents feel like they failed him.Photo / Justice for Hemi Facebook
The parents of a toddler beaten to death by his babysitter believe Australian children will continue to die if child abusers aren't locked away longer.
Shane Burke and Kerri-Ann Goodwin this week watched as Matthew James Ireland, a man they once thought was a friend but now call a "predator", was jailed for eight-and-a-half years for the manslaughter of their 18-month-old son Hemi Goodwin-Burke.
As the sentence was being handed down at the Mackay Supreme Court some reacted furiously, shouting to Ireland, "You're a f***ing murderer", and "you should be all ashamed of yourselves".
Adding to their fury is the knowledge Ireland could be free in less than two years because of time already served. He has been in custody since Hemi's death in March 2015.
They gave victim impact statements in court, standing metres away from Ireland, who sat with his head down in the dock.
"He didn't look. When we walked past to give our statements he looked at Kerri-Ann and said he was sorry. But that doesn't mean anything."
They'd heard his account of what happened the night Hemi was fatally injured.
"From [what Ireland told police] he sat outside drinking and every time he walked back inside he applied another form of violence
"Whether it was kicking him like a football, picking him up by his throat, squeezing him, pushing him down in his cot. Every time [he went inside] he did more."
The court heard Ireland drunkenly beat Hemi over a two-hour period while babysitting him at the family home in Moranbah, Queensland.
The little boy's body was covered in 78 bruises from being kicked and punched repeatedly.
Ireland told police Hemi hit his head on the side of the bathtub after he violently jerked the child's leg out from under him.
He originally lied to investigators that Hemi had suffered a seizure, and tried to blame the injuries on the boy's 3-year-old sister.
Later, he conceded he was drunk. Listening to what Hemi went through "broke us", Burke said.
"Just to think of the pain he was in. We weren't there to protect him," Goodwin said. "Think how scared he would have been."
The predator in their home
Not a day has gone by they didn't regret letting Ireland into their lives.
Goodwin blames herself for allowing "the predator" into the home that had been "Hemi's safe haven". She had been in Brisbane receiving medical treatment for a back injury and trusted Ireland to babysit.
"I let this person into our home, a place that should have been a safe haven," Goodwin said.
"I trusted him, I thought he was a friend. I'm sorry, Hemi," she said to the court.
Burke had known Ireland for a decade. They'd worked in the mines together and he had spent time with the family, looking after the children, and doing odd jobs with Burke for two months. There was no sign he could be dangerous.
"And then when we left him alone something must have changed."
They told him there wasn't to be any alcohol in the house and, with no suggestion anything could go wrong, they left for the Brisbane appointment confident everything would be fine.
The night Hemi was injured they spoke to Ireland about 6.30pm. "He said everything was fine. If it was that he was struggling and he needed help, there was opportunity to say that."
Burke believes that once Ireland started to harm Hemi there was no turning back.
"I think after he inflicted the first bruises he couldn't stop."
They heard something had happened early the next day and flew to Townsville where Hemi was on life support. As soon as Burke laid eyes on his son he knew he was gone.
"You could tell he was gone when we walked in. Because really he had died in the bathroom when his brain stem was severed. That's the force that was impacted on him - enough to sever his brain stem."
It was hard to find the words to describe how they were feeling.
"We are nowhere near justice for Hemi. But we need to make sure he can't do it again."
They have started a petition to the Queensland Attorney-General and are also going to attempt to appeal.
"There's so much more that could have been done. I think the message is that so many of our children are getting let down here, they're getting a few years. A few years for a child's life. We need to boost these sentences, you kill a child and all you get is a slapped wrist."
Manslaughter not murder
Burke said they were told Ireland wanted to plead guilty to manslaughter when the case was still working its way towards the Supreme Court where they expected him to be tried for murder.
"The Crown asked us how we would feel and we told them no, we would rather go to trial," he said.
Goodwin would have rather it went before a jury and failed than to have him convicted for a lesser sentence.
"I don't know how they can change it from murder to manslaughter.
The couple said they begged prosecutors and police to stick with murder.
"Then they told us they were downgrading it and we begged him [again] and they told us it would be hard to prove intent."
That stunned Burke, because he had viewed a video filmed by detectives where Ireland walked them through the house reconstructing what happened the day Hemi was fatally injured.
"He walked the police around our house saying all the things that he did, and he said it was over an 11-hour period in that video. But in court [at sentencing ] they said it was over a two-hour period."
Goodwin said she'd never felt as "humiliated" as she did when she begged prosecutors not to downgrade the charge.
"We just want justice for Hemi."
Burke said the family was still fighting to get information about what really happened to his son.
"We've been left out of the loop the whole time," he said. "If they wanted to downgrade the charge they should have shown us why. "They've left us in the dark."
Hemi's family had planned to wear T-shirts bearing the toddler's face during the sentencing but Justice Duncan McMeekin ordered them not to bring them into the court.
Goodwin could understand that view if a jury was present, but didn't accept that at sentencing. "If we have to sit there and look at the predator he should be able to sit there and look at the victim."
But as Ireland was led away to begin his jail term, a handful of people in the public gallery quickly open jackets to reveal the shirts blazing "Justice for Hemi".