"We were beyond the point of return. The boat was almost vertical."
The EPIRB beacon was activated at 8.30am (AEDT) and they were found by a Westpac Rescue Helicopter 45 minutes later, 9.2km from North Head.
NSW Police's marine area commander Superintendent Mark Hutchings said the distress beacon gave an exact location, ensuring rescuers could find them within an hour.
"It's the difference between rescuing in 45 minutes and maybe one or two days," he told AAP.
Mr Smiles said he knew they would be okay when the distress beacon was set off.
"The EPIRB, as soon as I set that off and it started to beep, I knew that we'd been pretty well okay," he said.
He praised the courage of the two boys.
"They're pretty good boys, they've done a fair bit," he said.
"My little boy's spent five years on a boat, so he's pretty well (experienced)."
The police were also impressed.
"They've been through quite a dramatic experience but they were in surprisingly good spirits when they got here," Supt Hutchings said.
The other dad, Rick Matthews, sustained burns to his chest and abdomen from fuel in the water, and cuts to his leg from a fishing hook, and was being treated in hospital.
All four were rescued when the helicopter dropped a life raft into the water, before a water launch arrived a short time later.
Rescue helicopter chief executive Steve Leahy said the boat had sunk very quickly, leaving no signs of debris.
"It's just an amazing story," he told Sky News.
With the boat 65 metres below the water, Supt Hutchings said it would probably never be known what caused the sinking.
- AAP