Cindy Palmer spoke to 60 Minutes in Australia about why she gave up Tiahleigh to foster care.
Cindy Palmer spoke to 60 Minutes in Australia about why she gave up Tiahleigh to foster care.
New Zealander Cindy Palmer has told Australian TV how she gave her daughter up during a "severe domestic violence situation" because she thought it was the safest option for a then 7-year-old Tiahleigh.
But instead, five years later, Tiahleigh would die at the hands of her foster father after being molested by her 18-year-old foster brother.
Rick Thorburn pleaded guilty to murder on Friday and will serve 20 years before being eligible for parole. In a "confession" letter, he claimed to have no memory of how he killed his young ward – or the two-and-a-half years that followed.
Tiahleigh was in contact with her mother while in foster care. Photo / Supplied
The court heard Rick killed Tiahleigh on October 29, 2015, because he thought Tiahleigh might be pregnant and he thought his son would go to prison.
"I was suffering through a very severe domestic violence situation," New Zealand-born Cindy Palmer told 60 Minutes.
"So, I actually went to the department for help because I realised that one day I was just going to die and (she) was just going to be left there by (herself).
"I still firmly believe that the day I went to the department asking for help, I made the right decision. It's not what I wanted and it wasn't the outcome any of us wanted, but at the end of the day I thought it was the safer option."
But life only got worse for Cindy after giving up her daughter, she said.
"At first, I was so devastated at being apart from her that I spiralled out of control, into drugs and homelessness."
Cindy told the programme she'd had a bad feeling about the Thorburn family and was worried her daughter would be living with teenage boys.
"Straight away, I said no," she said.
Rick Thorburn pleaded guilty to murder on Friday and will serve 20 years before being eligible for parole. Photo / Supplied
"The first ever time that I met Rick, the first words that came out of his mouth were about how he was in a gang when he was younger and he was running guns and prostitutes. And he was proud of this."
Family members have told police that Rick was prone to telling elaborate stories to impress people. Cindy said whether or not the story was true, it was "inappropriate".
Police and the Crime and Corruption Commission used various strategies to gather the evidence needed to arrest Rick, his wife Julene and their boys Josh and Trent.
Julene and Josh were jailed for their part in covering up the schoolgirl's murder and Trent was jailed on a charge of incest.
In recorded police interviews, Josh said his father showed no emotion after murdering Tiahleigh.
Tiahleigh Palmer. Photo / Supplied
"He didn't cry. He seemed quite assured and defensive of what he'd done and why he'd done it. Obviously, it was to protect Trent," he said.
Cindy said she had received abuse and even death threats over her decision to put her daughter in foster care.
"I've worked really hard not to be that person anymore but I guess maybe it is a little bit of guilt because obviously I was meant to be a mother and I should have made better choices."
