"We find it extremely strange to ask other people for money to help you travel," she said. "Selling things in the street or begging isn't considered respectable. People who do so are really in need: they beg in order to buy food, pay their children's school fees or pay off debts. But not in order to do something seen as a luxury."
Travelling across the world - even if it's in cheap hostels on a budget of £5 a day - is not a God-given right; it's a luxury that millions will never have. Backpackers might be able to justify their behaviour to themselves, saying that they're not forcing anyone to give to them/they really can't afford their next flight/they're busking not begging, but deep down they surely know what they're doing is wrong.
You cannot spend time in some of the world's most deprived areas and fail to see that there is a difference in having your smartphone stolen and not being able to eat. Even if you're travelling purely so you can use the #wanderlust hashtag and go to a Full Moon party, it's impossible to ignore the reality of poverty.
Backpackers cannot - and should not - ever feel entitled to people's spare change when they're busking next to someone who has not eaten a proper meal in days.
People who fail to recognise this are the epitome of white privilege. They think that selling postcards for a few pounds is 'hilarious' and a great travelling story, when they're potentially taking away customers from a local who needs those pounds more than they can ever imagine.
A friend, currently travelling in South East Asia, tells me: "People choose to fritter away money on drinking and expensive meals and activities, then wonder why they've run out. Gap year travellers can spend a local's monthly wage in a day. They have no right to complain and beg. It's disgusting and out of touch. If they're really out of money, I'm sure they can sell their iPads."
There are numerous alternatives for backpackers who run out of cash, from working in hostels, or taking part in programmes where they can work in exchange for free accommodation. There is really no need for them to sit in their Birkenstocks and yoga pants with cardboard placards reading: "I am travelling around Asia without money. Please support my trip" - an actual sign one man has been photographed with.
In recent years, there has also been a rise in people crowdfunding their travels. It's no longer shocking for a couple to ask for donations to their 5* honeymoon instead of wedding presents, or for people to take to Kickstarter asking for others to help them fund a volunteering scheme abroad.
It's the modern day equivalent of people pleading with your friends to sign your sponsorship form at school - and it's getting out of hand.
Backpackers are so convinced they're 'giving back' or 'living a worthy cultural experience' they lose sight of what they're really doing: asking people to give their holiday a cash injection.
It's bad enough when tourists go on 'slum tours' in underdeveloped countries and take photos of beggars, but when they join them so they can pay for white-water rafting, they're taking their entitlement one step too far.
This article originally appeared in the Daily Telegraph.
