I was born in Middlesbrough, where my father was teaching Russian at a girls' high school, but from when I was 2 we started travelling.
Dad's first job overseas was teaching English when he was asked to join the British Council, the cultural arm of the British embassy. We started in Kuwait, then went to Libya, then back to Kuwait, then Algeria, Qatar, Abu Dhabi.
We were in Libya for the revolution. I remember seeing a tank at the local petrol station, and a friend of ours arriving with blood all over him after he'd been bayoneted. It was just in his leg so Mum patched him up and he was okay.
When I was about 8, I had coffee in the Atlas Mountains in Algeria with a Berber jeweller. That was a defining moment, when I became aware of authentic travel. Also in Algeria we did an enormous road trip, driving south over the Atlas Mountains into the Sahara Desert. We saw communities that had barely been visited by travellers. I don't think my parents were especially adventurous, just curious.
In my early 30s, I'd been a director of Price Waterhouse in Russia then I turned up here in New Zealand — my wife's a Kiwi — and I just couldn't get a job. So my wife said, "let's do our own thing" and so we started Ahipara Luxury Travel. But it was tough. For five years we went backwards, thinking we'd lost everything — and five years is quite a long time — then we had five years of holding steady and five of doing really well.