Elisabeth Easther meets Donnelle Tamaiparea, the Operations Manager at Tai Tokerau Resort College.
I moved to the Bay of Islands from Auckland when I was about 12. I didn't want to come but my parents dragged me, and I kept saying "as soon as I'm old enough I'm leaving"; but I didn't leave until I was 23.
I've always worked in tourism and hospitality. After school I worked in hotels, then in 1997 I moved to Auckland and became a dealer at SkyCity. I met my fiance there — he was a bartender, not a punter — and for our first proper overseas holiday, we decided to go backpacking for a year. We sold all our possessions and, with our Kathmandu backpacks, went to Bali, which we loved.
Six years later I came home with a husband. After Bali, we went to London, travelling all around the UK and Europe. On one of our longer trips, we were somewhere in Italy and I watched my husband unpack his backpack and pull out nine pairs of shoes and a trumpet, all out of a regular Kathmandu backpack. I remember waiting for a train in the Czech Republic and he gets his trumpet out at the train station and people thought he was busking. He was only learning, so it was pretty horrific. The world's worst busker. We joked they were chucking money to make him stop.
The only time things got a bit scary was when we'd hopped off a boat in Tangier, Morocco, which was like a different planet. It was obvious we were naive Kiwi backpackers, and this man was chasing us saying "you in Africa now, you in Africa now".