I'm one of six kids, although my older twin brothers left home when I was 7, so then there were just four of us. There are two sets of twins in my family, I'm also a twin. My sister has twins, identical boys, and in my dad's family there are lots of twins too - luckily I don't have any.
My parents were both schoolteachers, they'd been teaching in Fiji in the early 70s, returning to New Zealand in early 73. When I was 10 we spent a month in Fiji, staying with friends of my parents' from when they were teaching. We spent a couple of weeks on a copra plantation at Udu Point at the top of Viti Levu, in a bure on the beach. I remember it so vividly - the plane ride that seemed to a 10-year-old to go on forever, and the heat when we got off the plane. For a week I went to a local school, we were treated as special guests and at the feasts, we were given the fish heads. And we were like, "we have to eat these?" They also served turtle but there's no way, knowing what I know now, that I'd eat it today.
Growing up, we had a 26ft launch made of kauri. It was built in the 1930s and was solid as anything. It cruised along at about 6 knots, slept six at a squeeze and we'd stay out for up to two weeks at a time. It was a great way to grow up, fishing, snorkelling and spear fishing in the Bay of Islands. I probably do what I do today because my parents had a boat. Dad used to let me take it out with no adult supervision when I was 15. Being the youngest of six they gave me more freedom than I'd give my kids.
My first holiday without my parents, I spent two weeks in the South Island with a mate. I was 19 and a dive master, and the shop where I worked would have groups of phys ed students learning to scuba dive so I went down to stay with some of them in a university flat in Dunedin. Then I spent a week in Queenstown where I skied and skied and skied till I couldn't walk any more. For a Northland boy I didn't get those opportunities very often so I made the most of it.