Good news came by email: Raymond is in touch again. The last time I saw him was a year ago when he was managing a luxury hotel in Thailand's Golden Triangle (Travel, May 31).
He was a young, handsome Swiss guy who had the world's best job: making sure the lodge ran smoothly, tasting imported wines, being nice to nice wealthy people, eating beautiful food, and watching the river flow.
We hit it off because he was a heavy metal fan and when I left I promised to post him the new Metallica DVD. But a few weeks later when I sent him an email he was already gone - exchanging the trap of paradise for the fume-choked streets of Bangkok again.
But now he tells me he is managing a hotel at Hoi An in Vietnam, one of my favourite small towns anywhere - though I haven't seen it in a while, and from what he says I might not like it so much now.
The first time I went there was 10 years ago, and there were only two places tourists were allowed to stay. The tiny town, a Unesco World Heritage site, had a long history of Chinese residency, the streets were narrow, cars were not permitted, and people went everywhere on foot or by bicycle.
It was locked in the past and I took some black-and-white photos that could pass for late 19th century images.
There were about 10 foreigners in the whole place and when I went for a shave I pulled a crowd of curious kids and young men.
I had one of the best meals of my life - lightly grilled sting-ray wings - in Cafe Des Amis by the river, run by an old Vietnamese gentleman who had been trained in Paris.
Some girls made me silk shirts for a few dollars and in the market one afternoon I followed a woman singer who led her blind guitar-playing brother around by a rope. I have no idea what they sang about, but villagers everywhere stopped what they were doing and tears welled up in the woman's eyes.
I will never forget it, and have a photograph of this poor couple by my desk to remind me that music is made by real people, it is not a career move.
I went back two years later and there were now 23 places to stay in Hoi An - I was in the unglamorously named Trade Union Hotel - and the food at Cafe Des Amis was literally inedible.
But the beautiful little town was flooded and people made their way through the narrow streets in flat-bottomed boats.
It was like Venice, and we ate dinner in candlelit restaurants with water around our ankles.
Hoi An was, although changed in even those two years, still a magical place.
Raymond should have seen it back then, but I guess today he is sitting in one of the two five-star restaurants at the Victoria Hoi An Beach Resort he manages, which he describes as a 105-room property located at Cua Dai Beach, close to town.
It is a beautiful beach, but I wonder if it deserves a high-end resort with an infinity pool, bars, the spa and conference facilities. The beach is monitored, I guess to keep away Vietnamese trying to sell their wares to wealthy Europeans.
However, Raymond loves Hoi An and says they even stop the motorbikes - motorbikes in Hoi An? - three nights a week.
Once a month they turn off the electricity and there are only Chinese lanterns. That sounds lovely.
When I first visited the town there was power only a few hours a day, and the second time none at all because of the floods.
I guess it is still a very beautiful little town and I'd be curious to see Hoi An again ... but, despite Raymond's invitation, I doubt I'll go back.
Fond memories of Hoi An better left untouched
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