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My grandmother has just turned 90 and told me she regrets not going to Angkor Wat in her 80s when she was a little more mobile. She can't always walk long distances, particularly over uneven terrain. Are there any organised tour options to Cambodia for someone with limited mobility?
Carolyn James, Auckland.
While Cambodia could be a challenging destination for someone of your grandmother's age, that doesn't mean it's impossible. And if it's somewhere she's always wanted to see, she should see it. As the kids say, YOLO.
In fact, on researching this question, I found a rather lovely account by a 19-year-old woman who took her 90-year-old grandfather on a trip to Cambodia. He also had limited mobility, but like your grandmother, wanted to see as much of the world as he could.
They did face some challenges — such as the bumpy tuktuk rides and steep staircases in temples — but overall it sounded like a really positive experience. The blogger found communication was key and alone time was also important — often her granddad would spend the afternoon relaxing at the hotel while she did a bit of exploring on her own.
She also recommended planning activities sparingly and making sure lots of time is allocated. You'll want to follow your grandmother's pace, though it will be slower than yours — but sometimes being forced to take things slow can result in a more fulfilling experience.