I often think of the night in Santiago a friend and I went to get a simple open-faced focaccia with tomato basil and mozzarella, at midnight. I learned that Michelin Star restaurants cannot compete with a humble meal of that kind.
My next trip, freshly heartbroken, was to Japan: Yokohama and Atsugi. I ran into my ex in Hong Kong airport. Despite the set up, It was not a romantic movie moment and I cried all the way to Japan. Later, safely installed in beautiful Atsugi, a temple dedicated to romantic love told me to avoid dating and "wait". My hosts seemed bummed out; "Ah, so that's the least fortunate fortune slip". In Yokohama, a pet meerkat decided I was A-OK and gave me a snuggle. The fortune slip's advice was spot on.
This is a mere sampling of my adventures. In Abu Dhabi and Hong Kong, I found mind-boggling luxury and incredible people. While exploring Stewart Island/Rakiura for a week, I found snow at sea level and indescribable peace. Go there, go there, haere atu.
My favourite tips are long haul flight related, particularly pertinent for us adventurous Kiwis. Get a good neck pillow - mine is the Cabeau Evolution Classic Travel Pillow. Build a pillow fort with the tiny pillows the plane loan you: pop one in the small of back and elevate your feet. If you bring an empty eco bottle through customs and then fill it up you'll be the smuggest person on the plane.
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