Sex files: 13 stories with expert advice to get things back on track in the bedroom
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Can’t sleep this summer? Here’s how to get a good night’s rest
‘You have to teach your brain to associate bed with sleep and sex. And nothing else.’
'Widow's fire': When my beloved husband died I experienced shocking feelings of sexual desire
Telegraph: Desire for physical intimacy while grieving is common but little discussed.
Anna Wise: I’m 67, single and I’d never get married again
OPINION: Unmarried women over 65 are less likely to remarry than ever.
'I was submitting': Man who choked BDSM partner unconscious in shower sentenced but can't be named
The man's name suppression will be argued at a hearing next year.
What your husband is really thinking (according to a male sex therapist)
Telegraph: A sex therapist reveals surprising facts about men's intimacy and emotions.
Should you give your partner an adult toy for Christmas?
A risky move or a way to spice up Christmas? Sex therapist Sofie Louise has the answers.
How threesomes and swinging went mainstream (and the rules to follow)
Telegraph: This story deals with sexual content and is suitable for adults only.
Should you tell your partner you don’t actually like the sex you’re having?
'Everyone deserves sex they can get excited about.' Tips for honest conversations.
BNZ CEO admits denying sex toy brand an account was wrong call
'We didn’t get it right and we need to fix it.'
Showgirls ablaze: Auckland strip club catches fire, streets closed
A fire has broken out on the second storey of the building in busy downtown Auckland.
'Prohibited': Kiwi sex toy company denied BNZ business account
'I would argue that gambling does more harm to society than selling vibrators.'
‘Is this position even possible?’: How to shoot the perfect sex scene
Telegraph: Intimacy co-ordinators make sure the nitty-gritty is believable.
Why women struggle to orgasm in menopause – and what to do about it
Telegraph: Menopause needn’t ruin your sex life.
Husband remortgaged house for drugs and sex workers
When they split up, his wife discovered his sordid secrets.
‘We started micro-dosing magic mushrooms – now we’re having the best sex of our lives’
Around one in 100 people used psychedelics last year and studies prove they boost libido.
Chart-topping singer joins OnlyFans to pay for her music tours
She plans to monetise photos of her bottom to cover food, staff and accommodation costs.
Rotorua teen prostitution ring: Five men admit being customers
Details have been revealed about five men caught up in an underage prostitution ring.
From size to stamina: Men’s 5 biggest questions about sex
A sex educator has answers on the ins-and-outs of sexual intercourse.
Advice: My wife is unhappy we’re not having sex. After 27 years, it’s a bit late now
Telegraph: Tips for a man whose wife wants to rekindle their sexual relationship.
From shame to pleasure: The story behind the success of a viral erotic podcast
Times: The writers of Dirty Diana explain how the story improved their sex lives too.
Practical sex tips for the over 60s – by three women who know
Telegraph: Senior sex ambassadors speak candidly about intimacy in later life.
New Zealand sex therapist shares secrets to initiating intimacy and connection
How to bring the spark back to a long-term relationship without fear of rejection.
My $1300-an-hour session with Hollywood’s orgasm coach
Times: The O-Man claims he can improve women’s sex lives. But it comes at a cost.
X-rated files: From aliens to Bigfoot, Gillian Anderson’s book details women’s fantasies
'Writing it down it felt dirtier than it was in my mind'.
I’ve helped 150 couples fix their sex lives. This is the advice I give to all of them
Telegraph: A sex therapist reveals her best tips for better connection.
'This is a disgusting advert:' Complaints after gay sex education ad runs where kids can see it
"I think any big poster promoting anal sex outside a dairy is a no-go."
Ask Rachel: I feel like I’ve missed out on adventurous sex. Is everyone having fun in bed?
Telegraph: Erotic fiction can set unrealistic expectations for real-life relationships.
This type of experience can reignite your relationship's sexual spark
Dr Amy Muise: 'Self-expansion can reignite desire, even in long-term relationships'.
How to reignite the spark in your long term relationship
Herald speaks to a researcher and expert in Sexual Health and Relationships about how couples can experience that honeymoon high again. Video / Carson Bluck
I got herpes after leaving a 20-year relationship. Here's why it's not a big deal
80% of Kiwis have the herpes virus. What do you do about it if you're one of them?
The Kiwi company offering paid 'O break' for private pleasure
The company says self-pleasure can increase relaxation and mental clarity.
Depression can affect sex drive. Here’s how to cope.
While some antidepressants affect libido, others can help restore sexual function.