OpinionAllison Benedikt: If you're having a baby, don't get a dogWhen I first met Velvel, he was peeking out from a cardboard box in the back seat of my boyfriend’s Saturn wagon.31 Jan 11:15 PM
New ZealandHeart-stopper newlyweds to marry againMalcolm Jondahl looked up at his bride-to-be and said sorry. The 35-year-old from Whangarei was minutes from exchanging vows with his partner of three years when he collapsed at the creekside venue of their wedding in rural Northland.31 Jan 04:00 PM
LifestyleIn love with Invisible BoyfriendI've been using the service for 24 hours, and I gotta wonder: How can you not fall in love with him? writes Caitlin Dewey.30 Jan 01:10 AM
OpinionThe rules of cheatingBeing cheated on is betrayal of trust - the knowledge that the rules were broken. It hurts a lot, writes Jill Goldson.28 Jan 01:30 AM
OpinionMatt HeathMatt Heath: Separation anxiety gets shorter by the centuryI don't get excited about the adventure of going to a fantastic location, I worry about how much I'll miss my little kids. It's pathetic, writes Matt Heath.25 Jan 11:45 PM
LifestyleCouple win lean weddingA stuntman and his fiancee have won a $70,000 dream wedding after shedding a combined 28kg in a ZM radio competition.24 Jan 04:00 PM
New ZealandCouple's heart-stopping weddingA Northland couple had a dramatic start to married life after the groom had to be brought back to life minutes before exchanging vows with his beloved.24 Jan 04:00 PM
LifestyleThe most dangerous sex position revealed - studyMeanwhile, the safest position is also the most traditional one.22 Jan 03:30 AM
LifestyleDanes strike deal on babiesCouples in a rural town in Denmark have agreed to try to have more babies over the next few years as part of a deal with the council to keep public services running.21 Jan 04:00 PM
LifestyleTo kick bad habits, do it as a couple - studyCouples are more likely to give up smoking, visit the gym, or lose weight if they get healthy together, a study has found.19 Jan 09:05 PM
OpinionJill Goldson: The most over-rated relationship 'rules'A relationship is a big investment in our lives. We may think we are not influenced, yet there are "rules" out there which often create unreasonable doubt in our hearts.16 Jan 12:05 AM
EntertainmentGwynnie says Brad Pitt 'too good for me'Gwyneth Paltrow has opened up about her romances with Brad Pitt and Ben Affleck, insisting one was too good for her while the other wasn't "in a good place".15 Jan 03:00 AM
WorldBritain's gay-friendly spy agencySpy agency MI5 has for the first time made it into the top 10 of the UK's most gay-friendly employers.15 Jan 01:02 AM
OpinionAnonymous: Fish in Tinder sea far too keen to hook upNZ Herald's anonymous single girl of summer tests out instant dating app Tinder in her challenge to find love.14 Jan 09:00 PM
Lifestyle12 Questions: Top quotes on sex12 Questions asks the good, the great and the interesting to ponder the big things in life - faith, hope, failure, love and money. Here are the best quotes from the year on sex.12 Jan 11:05 PM
OpinionLonnae O'Neal: Finding yourself after a 20-year marriage endsI'm Lonnae O'Neal now, but I was Lonnae O'Neal Parker for more than two decades. The pain is for a body of work I produced as my three-named self.12 Jan 10:45 PM
LifestyleMiddle age is slightly less terrible when you're marriedIn a new working paper, Canadian economists Shawn Grover and John Helliwell show the effect of marriage on a lifetime of happiness.11 Jan 10:30 PM
LifestyleWant a feminist boyfriend?How do you spot a male feminist if he's not at an abortion rights rally wearing a "This Is What a Feminist Looks Like" T-shirt?11 Jan 10:00 PM
LifestyleCouple marries 66 timesA serial bride and groom who have "wed" 66 times are planning wedding number 67 in New Zealand.10 Jan 09:25 PM
LifestyleSamiHawke weds in WairarapaKiwi singer Ladyhawke and actress Madeleine Sami exchanged vows at a late afternoon wedding under perfect Wairarapa weather yesterday.09 Jan 09:00 PM
OpinionVerity Johnson: Old enough to be his father? So what?When we see a couple with a significant age gap, we reach for the deerstalker. We raise our eyebrows, give a little cynical snort, and say, "well, we know why they're together, don't we?"09 Jan 04:00 PM
LifestyleMiranda Kerr's dating tip: Multiple men, just don't sleep with themMiranda Kerr thinks it's fine for a woman to date multiple men as long as they don't sleep with any of them.09 Jan 01:10 AM
LifestyleBristlr: A social network for dudes with beardsBristlr isn't just a bearded face: The app is introducing some innovations that could add critical social context back to online dating.09 Jan 12:00 AM
LifestyleWhy Stephen Fry could single-handedly explode the myths about gay marriageAs Stephen Fry prepares to tie the knot with Elliott Spencer, Patrick Strudwick explains why he believes that the couple's union explodes many of the myths surrounding gay marriage.07 Jan 06:17 AM
LifestyleSly engagement proposal almost sinksMatt Boggs' carefully laid plan to propose to his girlfriend at one of her favourite places in Whangamata nearly sank when his old wave ski started taking on water.06 Jan 04:00 PM
OpinionJill Goldson: New year relationship resolutionsIt is a good idea to keep New Year's resolutions about managing relationships quite simple. Here are a few ideas to start off with, from Jill Goldson.31 Dec 09:00 PM
OpinionJill Goldson: How to deal with self-absorbed peopleDealing with a self absorbed person, including work mates and family members, can be tricky territory to navigate, writes Jill Goldson.29 Dec 11:00 PM
LifestyleDating apps that put women in chargeDating apps have been in the news for all the wrong reasons this year, but a new generation of dating app emphasises safety.26 Dec 04:00 PM
WorldSpurned husband cuts up wife's clothesA spurned husband in England cut up $10,000 of his wife's clothes before packing them neatly back in the wardrobe.24 Dec 12:39 AM
OpinionJack Tame: The year of TinderIf we're to be defined for all eternity by the application we searched for most, 2014 was the year of Tinder.20 Dec 04:00 PM
OpinionDeborah Hill ConeDeborah Hill Cone: 30 random things I learned this yearDeborah Hill Cone scavenged from the filter of life and presents us with 30 things she learned in 2014.14 Dec 04:30 PM
