PremiumPremiumBusinessWork advice: My noisy colleague makes it impossible to concentrate'I don’t want to get her in trouble, but I also need to be able to do my job.'27 Oct 09:49 PM
PremiumLifestyleAdvice: I want to divorce my cheating husband, but at what cost to my child?'With some notable exceptions, most parents who divorce face hard or harder choices.'23 Oct 06:00 PM
PremiumLifestyleAdvice: I found my husband’s sex doll. Is it right to feel betrayed?"He swears it’s just a physical outlet and insists it’s not ‘cheating’."20 Oct 06:00 PM
PremiumLifestyleAdvice: Should I tell an acquaintance her husband is leading a double life?10 Oct 12:00 AM
PremiumLifestyleAdvice: Our daughter has cut us off. I have apologised, but my husband won’t26 Sep 01:00 AM
PremiumLifestyleAdvice: I cut ties with my mother years ago. Should I attend her funeral?02 Sep 06:00 AM
PremiumLifestyleAdvice: My partner and I aren’t excited to move in together. Is that bad?25 Aug 01:00 AM
PremiumLifestyleI asked my wife about sexual fantasies. Her response changed our marriage19 Aug 01:00 AM
PremiumLifestyleWhy the French have the best sex in the world, by a Parisian sexologist30 Jun 06:00 PM
PremiumLifestyleAdvice: My future sister-in-law just got divorced. How can I disinvite her to my wedding?25 Jun 12:00 AM
PremiumPremiumLifestyleHow to cope when you’re sharing a home with your soon-to-be ex-spouseSelling up or moving out straight away isn't always possible.23 Jun 06:00 PM
PremiumPremiumLifestyleAdvice: My partner will only sleep with me if I buy her gifts. Am I being used?Telegraph: Is a transactional relationship ever OK? It's complicated, says Rachel Johnson.16 Jun 06:00 AM
PremiumPremiumLifestyleAdvice: My best friend ghosted me, and I’m devastated. Help!New York Times: "I have reached out to her many times, but she hasn't responded."15 Jun 12:00 AM
PremiumPremiumLifestyleAdvice: My girlfriend won’t introduce me to her children or friendsNY Times: 'I’ve told her how much this hurts me... but she says she prefers it this way.'04 May 11:00 PM
PremiumPremiumOpinion10 rules for a long and happy life (from a joyful 85-year-old)New York Times: These tips apply at any age, writes Roger Rosenblatt.14 Apr 10:00 PM
PremiumPremiumOpinionEx-Files: Do I have to send my children back to Australia?OPINION: My kids and I are settled here but my ex wants them to return to Melbourne.13 Apr 12:00 AM
PremiumPremiumBusinessWork advice: My employee wears provocative outfits in the office. Help!New York Times: 'I get complaints that her outfits are distracting and unprofessional.'09 Apr 12:10 AM
New ZealandTen things that might be a waste of moneyMost people spend money on things they think they probably shouldn’t.06 Apr 05:54 AM
PremiumPremiumOpinionDiana ClementDiana Clement: How to get started on investing if you’re a young adult OPINION: Young people should start with KiwiSaver before riskier investments.05 Apr 09:00 PM
PremiumPremiumLifestyleAdvice: My partner won’t let my children stay with us. Help!New York Times: 'She suggests that I stay in an Airbnb with my children.'30 Mar 06:00 PM
BusinessWatch: Rowan Simpson’s Three ways to be wrongBudding entrepreneurs: Here's what not to do. Simpson also shares his own biggest blunder.22 Feb 09:22 PM
PremiumPremiumOpinionEx Files: What happens if I sign a will overseas?Dealing with a loved-one's will can be tough, but what about when it's signed overseas?04 Jan 05:27 PM
PremiumPremiumOpinionEx-Files: How to handle the post-Christmas divorceTensions can rise during the holiday period and sometimes lead to unfortunate endings.29 Dec 02:58 AM
PremiumPremiumOpinionMary HolmMary Holm: We’ve got $8.5 million in assets – can I afford to retire?OPINION: There are simple guidelines that indicate what income you can pay yourself.22 Nov 04:00 PM
PremiumPremiumLifestylePractical sex tips for the over 60s – by three women who knowTelegraph: Senior sex ambassadors speak candidly about intimacy in later life.18 Nov 09:00 PM
PremiumPremiumBusinessEx-Files: Does my NZ protection order still work in Australia?Q: An abusive ex-partner has got in contact since I've been in Oz.16 Nov 10:12 PM
PremiumPremiumLifestyleMy kids are still living at home in their 20s – how can I get them to move out?Telegraph: Advice for a couple who want to travel but their kids are holding them back.31 Oct 04:00 PM
PremiumPremiumLifestyleI’m a manager with no real power. How do I support my employees?What do you do when you care enough to create change, but have no power to do so?28 Oct 10:00 PM
PremiumPremiumBusinessEx-Files: Is your KiwiSaver relationship property?For many couples, KiwiSaver is their biggest asset after their family home.29 Sep 03:00 AM
PremiumPremiumLifestyleJust broken up? Here’s how to handle the rough first daysWays to navigate the early stages of a breakup – from the Kiwi who wrote the book on it.09 Sep 02:00 AM
PremiumPremiumOpinionMary HolmMary Holm: How to teach kids an investment lesson with just $2OPINION: It's never too soon to learn the value of saving money rather than spending it.16 Aug 05:00 PM
PremiumPremiumLifestyleWork advice: My colleague is cheating on his wife. Should I tell her?ADVICE: 'I want to help this woman, but not at the cost of my job.'25 Jul 10:36 PM
New ZealandGlobal IT outage a cashless wake-up call? Reserve Bank says keep physical cash for emergenciesLast Friday's CrowdStrike failure saw many unable to buy necessities as computers crashed.24 Jul 05:43 AM