South Canterbury farmer Mark Adams wishes all farmers unaffected by Mycoplasma bovis could sit down with one who is trying to operate under a Restricted Place Notice.
It was a "sobering experience" and challenged how the value of national and on-farm security was viewed, Mr Adams, the immediate past-president of South Canterbury Federated Farmers, said in his report to the organisation's national conference in Wellington.
"The loss of control - financial as well as the day-to-day management - is crippling and leads to the fruitless second-guessing of previous decisions.
"The sense of shame, fear and isolation all build stress, putting a huge strain on the mental health of affected farmers and their families," he said.
Farmers operating under an RPN needed the informed support of their team, their leadership and their community.