Now, some adaptive cruise control systems can not only keep their distance but will also bring your car to a complete stop in traffic. And then accelerate up to your preselected speed again when the way is clear.
By far the best such system is Mercedes-Benz's Distronic Plus, which has been available on the marque's larger models for some time but has just been introduced as an option on the C-class. It's $4600 for a package that also includes some other driver-assistance features.
It's activated by a single tap of a stalk, is faultlessly smooth at speed, and decelerates to a stop seamlessly. When the traffic moves away, you tap the accelerator pedal to let the system know it can reactivate.
BMW head up display
So who wants to feel like a fighter pilot? Head up display was pioneered by BMWin 2003 and it's still the best such system. Important information like speed, navigation instructions and cruise control settings are projected on to the windscreen in front of the steering wheel, so they look like they're floating in front of the car. No need to refocus your eyes to look at the instrument panel. Unless you're wearing polarised sunglasses, in which case the display is invisible. A minor glitch in a brilliant system.
Volvo City Safety
You could argue City Safety is designed for inattentive drivers - but hands up anybody who can claim they're always focused on driving when crawling along in slow traffic. Exactly.
City Safety, unique to Volvo and standard on the XC60 and S/V60, is a radar-based system active up to 30km/h. The rearview mirror-mounted sensor "watches" cars up to 6m ahead and if it looks like you're going to have a nose-to-tail collision, will precharge the brakes and even take over completely if the driver does not act. It can avoid a crash completely at up to 15km/h and will drastically minimise damage at up to 30km/h.
It's also clever enough to recognise what's a car and what's not, so don't test it on a brick wall. The latest version launched on Volvo's 60-series models can even recognise pedestrians.
Ford blind spot information system
Okay, not strictly a Ford system - BLIS was originally developed by Volvo. But kudos to Ford (former owner of Volvo) for getting it into a $52,990 car, the Mondeo Titanium. BLIS uses radar to monitor the blind-spot area behind the car and will warn the driver of the presence of another vehicle via a flashing light in the side mirror.
Volkswagen park assist
You might think that automated parking systems are kind of stupid. You might be right. If you use one by Toyota or BMW, you'll find the process slow, over-complicated and a little bit embarrassing - in the time it takes to set up you could just double-park and run in to get the groceries.
However, if you really must, Volkswagen's park assist was one of the first and is still the best because it's so simple. One touch of the button and the car can identify a space - select reverse and the car does the steering while you operate the throttle and brakes. It's simple and very fast - as fast as you could parallel-park yourself.
Best of all, you can have it on a humble Golf ($2500 as part of a radar/camera package).
Newer park assist technology now offered on Passat and some Audi models can even grid-park - although we haven't tried that yet.