She issued three top tips to dealing with money in the current climate.
Having a dedicated fa’alavelave account
The Samoan term fa’alavelave is used to describe monetary support given towards significant events such as weddings, funerals or other family or church obligations.
The word itself means a disruption, disturbance or accident.
Tualasea-Tutai shared a simple yet somewhat game-changing tip for Samoans or Pasifika who struggle when a fa’alavelave suddenly pops up - she has a dedicated fa’alavelave bank account.
“When the family group chat goes off, I know either someone’s married, someone’s dead - all the different life shocks,” she said.
“My aunty’s cousin’s brother’s sister’s dog’s mum-in-law is sick...I have a family account then I have my spending account, then my savings and then my investing account.”
She has a separate emergency fund that contains three months of wages and a self-care account that can be used for solo dates and little indulgences.
“I try to keep my self-care account at like $500 at all times,” she said. I feel like if it’s more then I will just go and book myself a trip to the Maldives.”
For those who didn’t grow up with a lot of money, there is the feeling of instant gratification when spending big as an adult, Tualasea-Tautai said.
She said it comes from a place of shock and social mobility.
“I got my stationery through [Work and Income NZ],” she said.
“My school fees were paid off on automatic payment that’s so real for so many.
“I can get the things that I’ve always kind of wanted, but then it’s reigning it back in sometimes.”
Making up-front purchases in favour of loans
There were several instances of clients who approached Tualasea-Tautai when she worked as a financial mentor, struggling to keep up with car repayments.
“I just can’t even count,” she said. “Why are these places letting you get finance on a Jeep? I think the onus is also on loan sharks and finance companies.”
“For the girlies who are looking for a car – highly recommend paying it upfront in cash.”