Funeral plans have been set for Fa’anānā Efeso Collins, with organisers anticipating a large turnout from members of the communities with whom the late Green MP was closely associated - including from Ōtara, Ōtāhuhu, wider South Auckland, Pasifika and Parliament.
The former Auckland mayoral candidate had been participating in a celebrity fun-run charity event for ChildFund New Zealand aimed at raising money to improve water projects in the Pacific.
He is currently being cared for by the team at Tīpene Funerals at its Onehunga base, where he will lie in state until his funeral service next week.
Public viewings are set to be allowed from February 26 to 28, followed by a farewell celebration at the Due Drop Events Centre in Manukau on Thursday.
Asalemo Collins, 3, has spent the past two days playing with her little cousins as family and friends have come together to mourn the sudden loss of her father, politician and community advocate Fa’anānā Efeso Collins.
“She’s quite innocent,” family spokesman Taito Eddie Tuiavii says, acknowledging that the youngest of Collins’ daughters does not understand what has happened.
Kaperiela, Collins’ eldest daughter, is much more aware of the loss, however.
“Kaperiela is 11 and understands that Dad is not sleeping - he’s gone. She’s broken.”
Collins’ wife, Vasa Fia Collins, is also well-supported, he says, but is still coming to terms with the loss of her 49-year-old husband.
“They were yin and yang, Bonnie and Clyde, and now one is gone. So for Vasa Fia, there are moments of clarity ... but then also just loss,” Tuiavii says.
“[She] is a very private person. But she also acknowledges that Efeso was shared and loved by many.”
A mother’s grief: ‘This is her baby’
The family had already received generous offers of help, he said, including an offer from Eden Park and one from Ngāti Whātua, who have offered to supply the kaimoana.
“We’re absolutely aware and celebrate and respect that he was loved by so, so many different parts of society - so [we’re] giving them the opportunity to come pay their respects as well, ahead of the big service.
“Fia and the girls have [always known] that Dad was shared with everybody. You marry a normal spouse, you marry the family. You marry Efeso, you marry the country.”
“As you can imagine, a parent having to bury her child ... that’s how it shouldn’t be. She’s hanging in there. But ... she’s devastated. This is her baby. This is the pride and joy.”
Taofi le malō
The family has also announced that traditional Samoan protocols will not be adhered to.
Those protocols, usually seen at big events including funerals and weddings, involve customary gifts that can include fine mats, boxes of corned beef and large monetary gifts for the funeral.
Samoan families sometimes choose this option to help lessen the financial burden on extended families.
Tuiavii said in this case, it was more about acknowledging the many people and friends Collins was associated with from other communities - and removing any barriers or expectations.
“If you think about his Green Party friends, they just want to come, have a cup and tea and share.
“It’s just making it easier for people to mourn and grieve and come and show their love and pay respects.”
Instead, the extended family has set up a GiveAlittle page for anyone wishing to give a monetary meaalofa (koha) to Collins’ young daughters.
Vaimoana Mase is the Pasifika editor for the Herald’s Talanoa section, sharing stories from the Pacific community. She won junior reporter of the year at the then Qantas Media Awards in 2010 and picked up the best opinion writing award at the 2023 Voyager Media Awards.