Generous, welcoming, compassionate. They are not the usual descriptions for a front row prop like Peter Fatialofa, a bloke who stuck his melon into thousands of scrums and loved the physical conflict of rugby.
But Fatialofa was not your standard sort of prop who like to use their physical menace to protect their private space.
Samoan rugby legend Peter Fatialofa dies
Once he finished his games and that limping tread rejoined the rest of the world, Fatialofa had a marvelous rapport and time for those who were interested in his sport, his Manu Samoa side and his island nation.
He would sing, dance, drink and chat to anyone. Life was for living while manners and enjoyment were a huge part of Fatialofa's personal armoury.