Rudyard Kipling had the right idea about triumph and disaster. He reckoned that to be a man you had to "treat those two imposters just the same".
So, how are we all matching up to the Kiplingesque ideal this morning?
I know the Wales fans singled out by the TV cameras after Saturday night's loss to France weren't keeping much of a stiff upper lip. Their facepaint was running, tears coursing through the dragons and emblems painted on so lovingly a few hours before.
And it's hard to blame them. For the first time in this tournament we were all short-changed: reducing Wales to 14 men skewed a match that had all the makings of a classic.
It was still compelling viewing as Wales bravely tried to overcome the disadvantage. And the result was short of a travesty: Wales were defeated as much by their inability to win their own lineouts and their flirting with the sideline as they were by the disparity in numbers. Fitter and technically superior, they couldn't quite seize their chances.