COMMENT
Two years ago, Barack Obama wrote one of the most liked social media posts in the wake of a far-right rally in Charlottesville, saying: "No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin or his background or his religion."
It was a message that originated from Nelson Mandela, and it continued: "People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love. For love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite."
The former United States president posted those sentiments after some nobody drove a car into a crowd of protesters who were taking a stand against white nationalism in Charlottesville, Virginia. It was then considered one of the lowest points of Donald Trump's presidency when he blamed "both sides" for the violence. He hasn't shown anything since to suggest it won't get lower yet.
Obama's message struck a nerve — in a good way — because not only was he speaking the truth, it was a message of hope. Hate is learned, and it can be unlearned. What it boils down to is language — what is considered acceptable and what isn't, and no I'm not talking about hate-speech here, just day-to-day stuff among people who should know better including certain commentators in New Zealand peddling a political agenda.