After the Lions travelled all the way from Johannesburg to Christchurch to play the Crusaders in this year's Super Rugby final, coach Swys de Bruin sat in his team's central city hotel and said how honoured he and his team were to be there.
It was lunchtime and he and his players had only just woken – an attempt to shrug off jetlag – and it was a blessing, de Bruin said, to play the champion Crusaders, a team with such a rich winning history in the competition. It wasn't contrived, rather, it appeared to be genuine respect.
A few days later his men went out and played with courage and incredible resilience but eventually lost – succumbed to the inevitable, many would say – 37-18, but they were in the fight for far longer than many would have predicted.
When All Blacks coach Steve Hansen released his Rugby Championship squad to the media he announced that the Wallabies were the favourites to beat his side in the first Bledisloe Cup test in Sydney last month. When pressed on it given the All Blacks' domination of the Bledisloe Cup since 2003, he insisted it was because Australia had won the last time the sides had met, and that they had improved in the interim.
The point of this is that every top-level rugby coach sends messages to their teams through the media, many of which are the exact opposite to what they will tell their players in person.