There have been clear-the-air discussions, gentle coercion from outside parties and what might be described as a summit meeting in the past few days and still Ma'a Nonu remains in limbo.
He is the player who can't find a franchise. The place he really wants to be - and where everyone thinks it would be best for him to be - is the Hurricanes but they continue to say they don't see Nonu being the right fit for them.
Hurricanes coach Mark Hammett is not budging, according to those in the know. He's heard all the reasons why he should take Nonu back, spoken to the player and his agent, the New Zealand Rugby Union and New Zealand Rugby Players' Association, as well as senior players within the Hurricanes ... and still he doesn't see Nonu as part of his set-up.
The NZRU are trying to give the impression they aren't overly concerned; they don't want to be seen to be sticking their oar in. The NZRPA are taking the same approach, willing to support their player without leading or driving the debate.
Yet for all that the interested parties are trying to appear casual, trying to present the situation as not majorly out of the ordinary, there is genuine concern behind the scenes about what will happen should talks with the Hurricanes stay at impasse.