Forgiving and forgetting is meant to be easier in victory than in defeat, but as the great Irish centre Brian O'Driscoll considered his omission from the last Lions test in Australia as a trouncing of the most personal kind, the normal rules do not apply.
The Lions may have won the series, but the Dubliner made it clear yesterday that he took no great pleasure in the achievement.
"Of course, I wanted the team to win, but I'll probably look back on some other things that I've won with greater affection because of the manner in which the series finished," he said. "I don't apologise for that. It's just my gut. It's how I feel."
O'Driscoll was dropped for the deciding test in Sydney by the head coach, Kiwi Warren Gatland.
Speaking on Sky Sports, O'Driscoll said: "I was making myself a coffee and I got a tap on the shoulder and Gats was there with Rob Howley [the attack coach] behind him and I thought: 'Two is trouble'.