A person of my acquaintance, when faced with an awkward situation, is inclined to get past it by cheerily saying "moving on".
That is what Valerie Adams needs to do in the wake of her second placing in the shot put at the Olympic Stadium yesterday.
In her mind there was no silver lining to this result. Just sheer despair at coming up short.
The tears rolling down her cheeks minutes after the squat Belarusian Nadzeya Ostapchuk had comprehensively out-thrown her spoke eloquently of her inner feelings.
Now it's Rio in 2016. Adams remarked a short time after it was over: "I might just go to Rio just to piss people off."