He has been prolific for the Solomons with 15 goals in 17 internationals but those numbers are yet to translate to the Phoenix as he searches for his maiden strike.
The former Waitakere United and YoungHeart Manawatu man said his self-belief was growing.
"For me, coming in to the A-League, it was in the back of my mind that it wasn't going to be easy," Totori said.
"It's going to be difficult for me, especially coming from the Islands. It's a big stepping stone for me so I know everything's going to be hard and it's going to be tough for me, but as time goes on I started to play and I'm getting better each week. So hopefully I perform every week.
"My confidence is growing and I can feel it as well."
Last night the Phoenix were picked off easily at times on attack as their cross-heavy approach was well defended by the Mariners' experienced centre backs, although rookies Louis Fenton and Tyler Boyd were lively on the ball for Wellington.
Fenton and Boyd earned praise from Herbert and Mariners' coach Graham Arnold after the game, but both were unable to find a killer strike throughout the contest.
Totori's aggressive style gives the Phoenix a different dimension late in the game and he said the advice from Herbert as he entered the fray was the same each week.
"Nearly every time I go on he just says 'go do your thing, just play to your strength, use your speed and just go forward'."
Herbert was clearly pleased with Totori, and said that pace was a great asset to his side.
"For Benji, he's just lightning quick and I think that's great. He got the cross in and a good finish by Dani, so I think it just shows you can really benchmark the Central Coast game and I think defensively they're probably the best team in the league," Herbert said.
The 1-1 draw with the Mariners left the Phoenix in seventh place on the A-League ladder and they host the Melbourne Heart at Westpac Stadium on Thursday night.
The Heart, who lost 2-1 to the Melbourne Victory last night, will be without suspended centre backs Simon Colosimo and Patrick Gerhardt for the trip to the capital.