It was dark and cold when the passengers of flight NZ1127 checked in at Auckland Airport this morning at 6.30am. It was cold and dark when the majority returned to Tullamarine to catch flight NZ1128, departing 2.30am, back home.
The hours in between were sun-kissed but unkind. Dressed in black, beige and teal, they travelled as much in hope as expectation - both can be bastards.
They returned a lot more tired and a little bit poorer than when they left. For the next couple of days, some of them will wonder whether it was worth it. They'll snap at the kids, unfriend Australian mates on Facebook and spend a little too long in their pyjamas.
Then they'll get over it. New Zealand cricket fans always do. A lifetime of disappointments has cushioned them and the only reason this crushing defeat hurts so much more is because this team had convinced us they were impervious to the vagaries of form.
But sport doesn't work like that.
There's an old saying that you have to lose a final to win one. It is nonsense, but perhaps you have to play a final to fully understand the unique pressures.