The neighbours even got together to buy a trampoline for the children in the block. On the other hand, she can't have a dog and needs to be considerate when it comes to noise.
Auckland's new Unitary Plan, which determines what can be built and where is without much doubt going to allow for more medium-density housing when it's finalised later this year.
Yet the idea that three, four or even six homes could be built on an erstwhile quarter-acre section elicits the collective words "not in my back yard" from many Aucklanders.
Search online for "medium-density housing" and you'll find newspaper articles that include words such as "suspicious" "revealed" "infill" and "degrade". Even within the council's own ranks there is negativity.
Earlier this year Auckland councillor Sir John Walker voiced what he claimed many Aucklanders think: "Why ruin the city with three-storey apartments? They might not be very high but I wouldn't want to live next door to one."
New developments, such as Alexandra Park and Hobsonville, can build medium-density housing without upsetting the neighbours. Although many Kiwis still want their quarter-acre paradise and aren't being forced to move, others are snapping up medium-density housing as it's built or before.
At Alexandra Park baby boomers and empty-nesters are showing the most interest. However 41 per cent of buyers in stage two are under 45 years old, says Alexandra Park's CEO Dominique Dowding.
There are, of course, downsides. Aucklanders fear the character of their suburbs will change, are worried their sewers and infrastructure won't cope, their houses will be shaded out, and ghettos will be built in their streets.
There has been so much bad density housing built in Auckland that citizens can feel a bit wary about whether design and construction will be up to acceptable standards.
For those reasons, getting Aucklanders to accept we need more medium-density housing has been an uphill battle for Auckland Council.
Aucklanders, says deputy mayor Penny Hulse, see the bad intensification examples of the 1980s and 1990s where huge developments were erected along Hobson St and Nelson St that failed to take into account good urban design.
"For the people who haven't looked at buildings like Ockham's, that is all they have got in their minds."
Ockham Residential has built low-rise apartment buildings in Grey Lynn, Mt Eden and elsewhere that are often cited as examples of good planning.
Hulse points out that overseas experience shows increased density adds to the vibrancy of a city. The problem, she says, is many Aucklanders can't surrender the idea that we are all going to continue living the quarter-acre paradise.
The irony she says is that when we go on holiday, typically we don't stay out in suburbia. We stay in the areas with cafes, people, and denser populations, which make those cities vibrant. What's more, she says, Copenhagen, for example is compact, yet people want to live there.
Another plus for going denser rather than out is the average cost of providing water services, transport and parks, to new medium-density houses per unit is $33,890 compared to the $41,633 for their low-density counterparts, says Auckland council planner Tara Hurley.
Change won't happen overnight. Instead, the Unitary Plan will turn on the tap for higher-density developments.
Hulse won't be drawn on exactly how the Unitary Plan will prevent bad design, but says the city has learnt a lot in the past 20 years.