Former SAS soldier Willie Apiata has launched this year's RSA Poppy Appeal with an emotional plea for Kiwis to get behind the campaign for the sake of all New Zealanders.
The country's only living Victoria Cross recipient said every overseas deployment "takes a part away from you", making it difficult to reintegrate back into families waiting at home.
"At some stage in our life we will live through something that will traumatise us," said Apiata.
"All we ask is for people to listen and to not judge us.
"We need your support when we come home and our families need your support too because it's those poor buggers who've got to live with us when we come back."