The grandmother of Tania Billingsley has told of the family's frustration at ongoing delays in the return of the Malaysian diplomat accused of trying to rape the Wellington student.
It has been 142 days since Malaysian diplomat Muhammad Rizalman allegedly indecently assaulted Billingsley.
But the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and Trade has revealed they have taken the first painstaking steps towards extraditing the diplomat back to New Zealand to face justice.
Tania's grandmother, Patricia Billingsley, of Blenheim, said the initial shock of the alleged incident had given way to hurt.
The subject had become taboo around the family.