Ten ways to give your mum a day to remember

It's the day on which fathers and children make that extra effort ... and mothers keep reminding themselves that it's the thought that counts. Mother's Day.

Stores have stockpiled chocolates, flowers and perfume for the big day tomorrow, but they are not the only way to give Mum a day to remember without shuddering.

The weather forecast isn't too good, so look inwards as well as outdoors. Here are our top 10 suggestions:Spend today getting ready for tomorrow. Make a card, wrap up a book, paint a flowerpot.

Offer mum breakfast in bed, but don't insist. The acceptance rate will depend on her dexterity and her tolerance for toast crumbs in the sheets.

To market, to market. Take in one or more of the markets open on Sundays. There's plenty of variety, from posh to pedestrian, and they're all good fun.

Book her and Grandma, or even the whole family, for afternoon tea. Choose from a wide selection of venues, including the Langham Hotel, SkyCity, the Heritage Hotel, and Highwic House.

Admission is free for mothers tomorrow at the Auckland Art Gallery's exhibition of contemporary art in the new gallery.

Mums are also free tomorrow at the Stardome, if they are accompanied by a paying child. Great for a visit if you've never been before, or even if you have.

Chocolates, books, wine, flowers, food, diamonds, art - the list goes on.

Comedy Festival, Topp Twins, Tim Beveridge, NZ Music Month, movies, concerts - see today's TimeOut for inspiration.

Feeling the effects of the recession? Clean the house for mum, or give her a voucher for an upcoming clean. Think of the exercise you'll get.

Visit - she'd love to see you.