Domestic violence is rife across the Pacific, and rape, including gang rape, is a serious problem. Around two-thirds of women in Papua New Guinea, Kiribati and the Solomon Islands are subjected to sexual or physical abuse. Surveys have found that sexual or physical abuse is such a daily reality for many Pacific women that they don't bother to report it, because they think that surviving in abusive relationships is a normal part of life.
In Papua New Guinea, for example, where polygamy is widespread, a law commission report found that most women don't report domestic violence until it has escalated into severe physical abuse.
Similarly, in Samoa, 85 per cent of abuse victims said they had never asked for formal help because they thought physical abuse was normal, or not serious enough.
Even when women do report domestic violence, police frequently ignore it or send women away, on the grounds that violence against women is a family matter that should be sorted out by the family.
A recent study in the Highlands of Papua New Guinea found that only one out of 163 cases of domestic violence that were reported to the police, was successfully prosecuted.
In many remote communities in the Pacific, there is almost no police presence anyway, and cases of domestic violence are often heard at village courts that are dominated by men.
At last year's Pacific Islands Forum in the Cook Islands, the leaders of all Pacific countries pledged to take action to address this appalling situation. Sixteen countries signed up to a far-reaching Pacific leaders "Gender Equality Declaration", that promised to protect women from violence, improve their access to justice, increase the number of women in leadership and political roles in the Pacific, and improve economic opportunities for women through better access to finance and markets.
But I suspect that not much has happened to implement the declaration, since it was signed last year, and that most women in the Pacific are unaware that their leaders have pledged to take far-reaching actions to improve gender equality throughout the Pacific.
The Australian Government, to its great credit, has pledged $320 million over the next decade to help achieve gender equality in the Pacific. But I doubt that many other countries have done much, in a practical sense, to implement the wide-ranging commitments they signed up to at last year's Pacific Islands Forum.
All countries, including our own, need to make specific commitments at the upcoming forum to address each of the issues raised in the declaration.
Otherwise, like so many other worthy declarations before it, it will simply gather dust and women in the Pacific will continue to experience the highest rates of violence, and lowest rates of political participation, in the world.
Sue Kedgley is a former Green MP.