Sonam Shelar was five months pregnant when she went missing. Photo / Supplied
Two years ago, a pregnant 26-year-old Indian woman upped and vanished - she left the Wellington home she shared with her husband, took a bus to Island Bay and did not come home. A witness would later recall seeing her crying as she walked towards the curving esplanade that hugs the picturesque coastline. Days later her body was found on a remote Wairarapa beach by teenage surfers, more than 60km from the capital city. Mystery shrouded the circumstances of her untimely death, adding further pain to bereft family in India. A coroner's report has retraced Sonam Shelar's last steps and ruled the young woman drowned. Finally her family know more about her final day but their grief is still raw. Chelsea Boyle reports.
Sonam Shelar was five months' pregnant when she was reported missing by her husband Sagar Shelar on November 17, 2018.
The couple were both born and raised in Mumbai but met on one of India's leading match-making websites, the Bharat Matrimonial, in October 2017. They married later that year.
When April rolled around they moved to New Zealand and rented a two-storey house in Khandallah, Wellington, that backed onto a train line.
However, Sagar Shelar was looking for a new home for his blossoming family.
The owner of their rental, Keith Scott, also lived at the property and had discussed the couple moving out because he did not want a new baby in the house.
In a coroner's report released to the Herald, Tracey Fitzgibbon said Scott described the Shelars' marriage as "solemn".
Some laughter was shared between the couple early on but in his view not "your usual newlywed happiness".
Their flatmate Tim Highsted-Jones noted Sonam was often on her phone and spent most of her time on the couch in her bedroom.
"He did not think she ever left the house," Coroner Fitzgibbon said.
Another flatmate Shiksha Desai also said Sonam mostly kept to herself and believed she was unhappy with the living situation, instead wanting to live in the city.
"Miss Desai believes Mrs Shelar felt isolated and did not like living in Khandallah," Fitzgibbon said.
Sonam was suffering badly from morning sickness during her first trimester but otherwise her pregnancy appeared to be going well.
Her last GP appointment on October 9 recorded that the expectant mum's nausea had settled.
The stressors in her life were noted as the new marriage, being new to the country and some normal anxiety about pregnancy - "not thought to be out of the ordinary".
There were no mental health concerns.
Two days before her disappearance she had an ultrasound that made her think she was having a baby girl - although the coroner's report noted there was "confusion" as to whether the sex of the baby was known at this time.
Nevertheless, Sonam was visibly upset and this was noticed by her husband.
The coroner heard Sagar Shelar would have never left her alone if he had been concerned.
He tried calling his wife several times that morning and there was no answer.
Worried, he left work and went back to check on her but Sonam - described in the report by Scott as a "homebody" unless in her husband's company - was not there.
Sagar Shelar said her absence was "highly unusual", Fitzgibbon said.
He noticed her shoes, water bottle and a green jacket were missing from the room.
One was handed into police. The other to Vodafone.
Divers were used to further scour the water.
Police would look into Sonam's phones as well as her husband's in the hunt for clues.
The coroner's report noted that police said he had "assisted the enquiry at every opportunity" and consented to a number of searches on his vehicle and bedroom as well as the phone.
"There is no evidence Mr Shelar was involved in his wife's death," Fitzgibbon said.
Sad discovery made by surfers
On November 21, Shelar's body was found by teenage surfers on the Wairarapa shoreline several kilometres south of the white rock that the beach is named after.
The isolated black sand beach, part of which is only accessible by private farmland, has no cellphone service.
But initial reports indicated to authorities it was likely Sonam.
Drift pattern analysis from marine mapping deemed it was "entirely probable" someone entering the water at Island Bay on November 17 could have drifted there by November 21.
Formal identification was completed by Sagar Shelar on November 24.
Police were unable to determine how Sonam entered the water, however the location of her cellphones indicated it was at the western end of the beach.
A post-mortem examination was performed by forensic pathologist Dr Katherine White who believed drowning was the cause of death.