"I often have coffee with my (male) flatmate," writes a reader. "He orders a mocha with sugar while I (a woman) drink espresso or cappuccino with no sugar. Invariably the sweet coffee is assumed to be for me ... It would be interesting to know if women really are more likely to drink sweeter/lighter drinks than men or if, as you suggest, this is a reflection of an ingrained attitude. I've always found it interesting that sugary RTDs are usually marketed at women, but most of the people I know who drink them are men!"
Hammering home the point
A reader writes: "I am a female who works in a hardware store. I am able to give anyone who comes in information they require about our products. Mostly they are quite happy with me giving them advice, but as soon as one of the male staff members comes on to the scene, they address all comments to him. This happens time and again. Not every customer is like this, but there are still a large majority who obviously think women are not capable of knowing anything about hardware."
Picture this #1: "Health and Safety being taken VERY seriously by one of Auckland's leading engineering consultancies '" says Harry.
Picture this #2: Steve Jobs action figure...
Picture this #3: Some great historical pictures of everyday life in New Zealand...
Gender bender: Having a scantily clad woman draped over a motorbike is a common photo shoot cliché, one Portland-based Ducati dealer MotoCorsa trotted out and sent to publications. Not a fan of such tackiness one editor said no to running the pictures ...but MotoCorsa came back with a new set of photos of the blokes from around the shop recreating every shot of the 'girl on bike' shoot...
Video: Girl fight...
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