"So actually commenting that 'hey, it's an x-kilometre an hour speed limit here' rather than saying 'you're going way too fast, you're going 105[km/h]' tends to be much more accepted by the driver."
Prof Starkey said international studies showed carrying passengers made people safer drivers, with solo drivers over 25 years old four times more likely to be seriously injured in a crash.
"We asked some of the drivers [in the survey] how carrying a passenger changed their behaviour and most of them report that they actually are more patient and careful, possibly because of that sense of responsibility they have.
"That actually it's not just them, that they're carrying other people and they feel that responsibility for them."
She said when planning a trip the best thing to do was to decide in advance what role the passengers were going to play in helping the driver.
"It can be one person's job to provide food and drink ... [another person's job to] alter the radio and actually keep an eye on intersections.
"[And drivers can] ask people to let you know if they notice you're going over the speed limit, and actually be open to their input and use them as a resource to help you drive safely."
She said passengers needed to think about how their behaviour affected the driver.
The study was funded by the AA Research Foundation.
Back seat driver dos and don'ts
Do
• Be another pair of hands: Pass the driver things, adjust the stereo and the airconditioning
• Be another pair of eyes: Take notice of the driving tasks, point out parking spots, hazards
• Give directions early, with plenty of time for the driver to react
• Take care of any children in the car
Don't
• Tell people how to drive
• Have lengthy mobile phone conversations
• Have family arguments or prolonged emotional conversations
- RNZ