She should be worried about the creeping arrogance of Police Minister Poto Williams in not allowing Opposition members to meet with the Police Commissioner, a public servant who they have a role to hold to account. I can't believe that just three weeks ago Poto was denying there is a gang problem in NZ. But the PM has probably consoled herself that it's not arrogance but incompetence and, as we see daily, that is acceptable in her Cabinet.
What should increasingly be worrying the PM is the arrogance of Trevor Mallard and the damage this is doing her. From badly handling the actual Parliament protest and then badly handling the aftermath by trespassing ex MPs and unforgivably giving Winston Peters a platform to crow from to generally running the debating chamber with ridiculous rulings that mean people can't actually debate, it is time for him to bow out.
I like Trevor, I think he is a complicated bloke who at times tries to do his best but more often than not he can't see past his Labour Party ideology to run Parliament for all MPs. He is also now damaging the PM as she defends him and it is for this reason he should go.
Once a Labour MP said one of the vilest things to me in Parliament that actually shocked me. I don't think you need every detail, but in the House, he shouted out to me words that insinuated that in the past I had been paid for sex. He wanted to hurt me and it was nothing short of malicious. He had only been an MP for a few months. I didn't confront him at the time – I would have had to explain why it was offensive and that would have made it worse for myself. It continued to play on my mind though and I felt I had to call out appalling behaviour. So I got hold of the Hansard (the official record-keeping of what goes on in the House) found the offending bit, circled it and simply wrote him a note asking if this is the sort of person he wants to be – and I signed it. He avoided me for months.
Of course, arrogance is not the sole province of members of Parliament and in the last week chief executive Simon Henry has proven he is not only arrogant but has ignorant, 1960s, pathetic views - fortunately in response New Zealanders didn't scribble him a note but shouted back at him while maintaining their dignity and talked with their wallets. Unfortunately for the women in his life, I think it all fell on deaf ears.
Paula Bennett is a former Deputy Prime Minister and National Party politician who now works at Bayleys Real Estate as national director — customer engagement.