Oamaru double-fatal crash: Victim was mother of eight

Erin Ross' daughters knew there had been a crash, but they tried not to think the worst when their mother failed to return home.

She and her partner Grant Rawson were just a few hundred metres from home when the ute they were travelling in rolled in Ardgowan Rd, between Homestead and Redcastle Rds this month.

"Her 9, 11 and 16-year-old daughters were left waiting and wondering for hours, but not for lack of trying," cousin Sinead Gill said.

"Erin's 19-year-old daughter contacted emergency services, went to the hospital in person to ask questions, and rang everyone she could think of."

By 10pm, they had learned their 48-year-old mother and father figure had been killed in the crash, and their lives had changed forever.

Erin Ross with her family. Photo / Givealittle

"Erin was a vivacious and proud mum who overcame many hardships to provide the best for her family.

"The oldest four, ranging from 20 to 29, still relied on her for life and parenting advice, to help babysit so they could pick up extra shifts at work, and to be the life of any party."

The mother-of-eight loved making memories, and always planned parties well in advance — so much so, her daughters had no idea she had secretly got engaged to Rawson weeks before the crash.

She had already picked out a date for the wedding and the bridesmaids, which included her six daughters.

"Now, her children have to make memories without her," Gill said.

"The older siblings will raise the youngest girls, along with their own young children.

"Erin would do anything for her kids. Now she isn't around to help, we want to raise funds so the siblings can spend as much time together as possible, and figure out their next steps.

"Money should be the last thing on their minds."

A Givealittle page has been set up, and to date, more than $2900 has been raised to cover the costs associated with moving and caring for the girls now and in the future.