Yesterday, it was reported radio host Jay-Jay Harvey had posted on social media, saying she'd been indecently assaulted by a taxi driver as she made her way home from a night out. She said he picked her up in Auckland and during the short trip to her home he made inappropriate comments about her body, touched her breasts repeatedly and suggested her ride would be free if she "hooked up" with him. He then tried to follow her into her apartment, she said.
Harvey was shocked and upset by the incident and asked her 107,000 followers "should I do anything about it?" When the Herald contacted Harvey yesterday, she was undecided about what action she should take. She was shaken by what had happened and wasn't sure if it was serious enough to take to police. It was later reported police had contacted her and she planned to make a report when she'd calmed down from the stress of the incident. She also said part of her regretted posting about the incident because she felt under pressure to go to police.
Of course victims should decide and control their path, and they should not be pressured or judged.
Police themselves though urge people to come forward to report incidents of all kinds. They need to know about such incidents. Information is power, and if they don't know about people in the community harming others, they cannot stop them and prevent further victimisations.
When something bad happens to us, it is our responsibility to make sure we do all we can to stop it possibly happening again.