One can’t deny the benefits for women of more available contraception, education choices, career advancements, childcare and a wider appreciation of all they can do.
The recent focus and appreciation of the suitably dubbed “supermums” at the Paris Olympics exemplifies just how far women have come pairing motherhood with high performance.
Rowers Emma Twigg, Lucy Spoors and Brooke Francis were recognised not only for their wins on the water, but for the fact they had achieved them within years of having a baby – and in the midst of raising a young child.
Sleep deprivation alone would make what they achieved challenging, let alone the physical changes their bodies had been through and sorting childcare to cover their training.
They are role models for women everywhere of what can be achieved in your career while also embarking on motherhood.
For many, achieving such greatness would mean settling for a smaller family of one or two children, rather than a brood of four or five. For others, it would mean choosing not to have children at all.
It’s simply how we’ve been raising women in this country for decades – showing them all they can achieve and be. We proudly celebrate being the first in the world to give women the right to vote.
It’s no surprise that women are having fewer babies to cope with such demanding lives. It’s expensive working or chasing a dream while raising children. Many are also leaving it later to start a family while they embark on a career or save up to take time off work, potentially taking the choice out of their hands.
They cited high rents and house prices, expensive groceries and hefty power bills as a large barrier to being able to have another child.
The trend follows many other high-income countries, some of which have been dealing with such a decline for decades with little success in bringing numbers back up.
Massey University sociologist Paul Spoonley said we still had a long way to go to match Italy, Portugal or Germany where the fertility rate’s down to about 1.2 births per woman, “but we’re getting there”.
It’s a trend that will undoubtedly change this country’s demographic to one where older people outnumber the young, and it’s a trend that’s unlikely to change.