Latu Paasi wiped away tears as she watched the unveiling of her husband and son's headstone yesterday - the first anniversary of their death in a boating tragedy.
Buried together at Onehunga's Waikaraka Cemetery, So'saia Paasi, 45, and his son Tino, 7, drowned nearby after their dinghy capsized during a family outing on the Manukau Harbour.
Three other members of the family also on board the dinghy - So'saia Junior Paasi, now 3, his brother Komani, 11, and cousin Tom Paasi, 10 - survived.
In an emotional reunion at the service, Latu Paasi met the man who saved her youngest son from drowning, fisherman Allan Godfrey, 40. He was one of the men who stripped down and jumped into the chilly waters of the harbour when they heard the children screaming.
"When I saw the heads go under and they didn't come back up, that's when I knew it was serious."