The hospitality worker knew after reading recent media articles about the CCCFA, his $18 spend a week at the gym could be pulled up during the application.
But during a meeting this week, the mortgage broker flagged his $184 a fortnight spend at his therapist, who he had been seeing for about a year.
If approved the cost of the house combined with the deposit would likely have led to mortage repayments similar to what he now paid in rent.
In order to increase his chances of the application getting approved by the bank, the mortgage broker advised him to get his therapist to send a letter saying that he would no longer need their services.
The broker did not tell him he would not get approved by the bank because of the spend ''but the vibe I got was that it would be such a black stain on my record, it would prevent me from getting it''.
The letter from his therapist, seen by the ODT, said he had advised he would not be continuing to use their services, and therefore the payments would stop.
''I wasn't going to stop going ... I literally had to get them to lie for me,'' he said.
The therapist offered to let him pay in cash in order for him to continue going to therapy without affecting his chances of getting a mortgage.
The man was not angry or frustrated at his mortgage broker.
''They were just trying to do their job under the new rules, I understand that.''
But he was concerned being advised to stop therapy could have a significant impact on someone in a vulnerable state.
''I was lucky, it didn't really worry me, but it could have been really hurtful for someone,'' he said.
Someone's spending on therapy should be seen as a ''green flag'' not a ''red flag''.
''You literally go there to better your self and you'd think it would actually improve your chances of being able to make the repayments,'' he said.
The man had pulled out of the application and now his mother was making an application for the mortgage to be in her name.
''I am very privileged she can do that for me, not many people would be in our position,'' he said.
Minister of Commerce and Consumer Affairs David Clark ordered a review of the rule changes earlier this month, which is being undertaken by the Council of Financial Regulators.