At first it had been difficult to believe what happened, as a motorbike and car enthusiast Vile had always bounced back from any scrapes or knocks, he said.
But he had suffered burns to 80 per cent of his body in the fire and at the hospital his family were told he was not going to make it.
"There was only so much they could do," Howard 'Vile said.
He said goodbye to his dad at Middlemore Hospital that day.
"I hope he heard me."
A commercial builder by trade, Vile could be counted on to help others, he said.
"He was involved in a little bit of everything. He wasn't scared to get his hands dirty."
The 56-year-old worked at Vernon and Vazey Truck Parts Ltd across the road from his three-bedroom home.
The company has helped Howard 'Vile move his dad's belongings, a lifetime of memories.
"They took it in their stride, had a few beers and got it done.