I'm not the same person I was 30 years ago and I'm jolly glad about that. We're not the same country that we were 30 years ago either and I'm equally pleased about that.
Who would want to live in a country with the same attitudes and values, the same take on the world, generation after generation? Good and bad comes with change but for the most part, the changes that come as we evolve are positive.
If some historians believe Gallipoli was the birth of the nation, surely this country taking on the US must be seen as our transition into teenagers. Stroppy, opinionated, sure in the rightness of our moral stance and willing to stick two fingers to the patriarchal, authoritarian power trying to tell us what to do.
The fourth Labour Government swept into power in 1984, in part because of the no-nukes debate. Then Prime Minister Robert Muldoon called an early election - the catalyst being Marilyn Waring crossing the floor and withdrawing her support from the Government after being attacked by Muldoon for supporting the Opposition Labour Party's Nuclear Free New Zealand Bill. Labour won the election in a landslide and made it clear they'd make good on their promise. They would not allow nuclear-propelled ships into New Zealand, nor any vessels carrying nuclear weapons. As David Lange put it, the only thing worse than being incinerated by your enemies is being incinerated by your friends.
Labour always maintained that although they were against nukes, they were pro-Anzus, the traditional alliance between Australia, New Zealand and the US but, really, that was sophistry as officials knew the US policy of neither confirming nor denying the presence of nuclear warheads would bring an inevitable clash between the countries. And that's exactly what happened. Late in 1984, the United States requested that the USS Buchanan be allowed to visit New Zealand, hoping that the fact that it was a clapped out destroyer that couldn't possibly be carrying nuclear arms would allow it to slip under the radar. The Government said no. And that was that.