COMMENT: It's hard letting your child go. When they are the most precious thing in the world to you, to accept that your role is no longer needed nor wanted and to step aside to allow them freedom to become adults can be the biggest test we face as parents.
Mainly because most of us remember what it was like, those heady glorious years when we were young and brave and forging our own way in the world.
We made mistakes. We took risky decisions and made wrong calls. We laughed too loudly and lived brightly without a thought for tomorrow. It was a time for discovering your own boundaries and when finding out what you didn't want – in partners, in jobs, in life – was just as important as finding out what you did want.
The world is exciting and full of opportunities to learn and live and grow. But we know now, as parents, what we didn't know then as young people; that the world can be a dangerous place and there are no guarantees that the people you meet will have your best interests at heart.
Grace Millane's parents have learnt the brutal truth that no family is immune from tragedy, no matter how close or how loving that family may be.