But what if your child is not academic? I fully appreciate that our children should leave school with the best toolkit possible for the world - to be literate and competent and sharp as a tack... but what if they're not?
What if they're a child who struggles inside the broadbrush one-stop shop learning environment that is school? What if their capabilities lie elsewhere? What if they're a kid who's never going to go to university or to practise law, or run an accountancy firm?
Surely we need something for them? Why should they struggle and feel alienated for all those years of high school? What does that do to their mental health and sense of wellbeing? Their self-esteem and sense of purpose?
You see, we need to think about it beyond just the parameters of learning and academia. We need to take a holistic approach and think about what sort of people we're churning out - robots? Or individuals who were empowered to be themselves.
It's interesting that we can install unisex transgender toilet blocks, and embrace the diversity of the person at school, but when it comes to embracing the diversity of the brain power, we seem to have less grace. Why?
Think about how often we cite difficulties and see poor stats and obstacles for teenagers in terms of mental health, anxiety, suicide, depression - and yet so much of that is encountered and played out during their high school years.
Why should study, exams, academic pressure and all the stress that goes with that be added to the heap? To what end? Impressive national stats around scholarships and high pass marks? So what.
How many of those kids are strung out, exhausted, pressured ticking time bombs with mental health issues? One of the ongoing criticisms of NCEA is that it offers too much choice.
I don't hear 'too much choice' being bandied round as an argument though, when kids who take subjects like PE and Outdoor Rec win medals at Olympics or represent their country. We don't sit around watching that success and saying, 'Gee, I wish they were better at maths.'
Everyone has a talent, everyone learns differently, everyone is unique. We hear that message never more than nowadays, so why don't we apply it to school too?