Today, International Women's Day, is a wonderful day to celebrate being a woman. We're better educated, we can choose our own careers and we can get paid parental leave.
We live in a lucky country, without war and conflict. We have good friends and most of us have an adequate standard of living, enough food and good health.
But New Zealand is slipping as one of the best countries in the world for women to live in. We've dropped to 10th in the Global Gender Gap report of more than 140 countries. The report measures women's pay, health, education and representation.
Why are we falling behind? There are at least four major worries: the lack of equal pay; entrenched inequalities for Maori and Pacific women; the shocking rates of violence against women; and women's lack of representation and status in politics, business and the community.
All of these affect us and our families. They are all issues that we can do something about.