Jacinda Ardern received some very good advice from Helen Clark by text from Europe this week: "Ignore the sexist attack and get on with the job." Clark knew, as Hillary Clinton did not, that gender politics doesn't work.
Labour's new leader, deputy leader and finance spokesman do not need to campaign as a woman, Maori or gay. It doesn't need to be said to voters of the same identity and to labour the point can be counterproductive. A woman campaigning for high office serves her gender much better if everything she says and does carries the unspoken assumption that it is perfectly natural for a woman to be in contention, which it is.
It did not seem quite so natural for a 37-year-old woman to be stepping into contention this week but that was on account of her age, not her gender. And it was in the context of her age, not her gender alone, that she was asked about starting a family.
It is a pity, I think, that she choose to spin that question into a gender issue. She had to concede she has previously talked openly about fitting family plans into her career. At that time she was not then contemplating leading the Labour Party quite so soon, if ever. But it was perfectly natural that she would be asked about that on a breakfast television interview the morning after she was pitched into the leadership.
Prime Ministers share quite a bit of their private life these days, we want to know them well. I'd love to see a young Prime Minister have a baby in office. And if she decided not to have children now, that would be fine too. I have never heard a woman criticised for that decision.