Pride has become a symbol of "we have overcome", and over the years of watching Hero and Pride grow, I've been moved each year by the newcomers to this movement, institutions, businesses, individuals and communities, acknowledging and celebrating a new era, a new journey of inclusion and diversity.
Every day I work in the arena of focusing on unjust solutions that pull our communities apart. Although our nationhood has made many progressive leaps forward over a hundred plus years, we are still on a demanding journey, scratching at the doors of law and policy makers for Treaty justice, penal reform and poverty on our doorsteps.
We should not be distracted from these soul-breaking facts of our life as a nation. But I do believe a great motivator for change is celebrating the "overcoming" that has already taken place.
It seems to me the "parade road" offers an opportunity of hope and peace.
Rather than allowing a uniform to identify oppression and deviance, in the light of the 35 years of growing understanding, support and allegiance shown by uniformed parts of our communities — police, defence forces, churches and others — can we not focus on the transfiguring values these organisations are moving to bring across the inclusive breadth of our nationhood?
If, after all these years, we carve off those we commission to special roles in our communities, we are likely to put at risk others who have confidence in the stability that those folk bring.
Feeding the current community discomfort with the Pride board's "listening" decision, that has been driven by a legitimate group of justice warriors, a coup has evolved that has angered very supportive Rainbow and straight communities.
They express sadness and disappointment over what is believed to be a backward step in board policy making. The full impact of that policy will be tested over the next months as Pride 2019 draws closer.
Maybe this is a wakeup call for community movements. Apathy in allegiance can lead to an unravelling of core values under pressure.
We need to be more than woven together as communities, we actually need to be spliced together so that when faced with a challenge our strength and support of each other is enhanced not unravelled.
As the Pride 2019 website states, Auckland Pride 2019 is about connecting people with purpose. Stronger, safer communities are created when people join together around a shared vision – freedom, equality and dignity for all.
I look forward to this being the case.
• John MacDonald is head of mission at the Methodist Mission Northern.
