Prime Minister John Key was the lunch companion of Chinese president Xi Jinping yesterday and the dinner companion of US president Barack Obama for two hours the previous night, Mr Key said after the Apec summit in Beijing last night.
He talked to Mr Obama about the Isis threat in the Middle East.
He said Mr Obama had clearly been briefed about his major national security speech last week in which Mr Key said New Zealand was scoping out a training role in Iraq but no combat role.
Mr Obama had agreed that diplomacy was the ultimate answer.
"I talked him through [the options] - ultimately if we were engaged in training whether he thought that would be beneficial in the context that Americans had trained people for a long period of time.