As Jerome Tama Tiori choked his teenager partner to the point she couldn't breathe he swore at her and said "I should kill you".
The 23-year-old was told by a judge who sentenced him to one year and 10 months imprisonment that unless he does something about abuse from his childhood he'd remain at serious risk of committing "homicide" in the future.
When Tiori appeared in Masterton District Court for sentencing Judge Barbara Morris told him he could easily have killed his partner when he strangled her and put a pillow over her face.
Tiori had earlier pleaded guilty to threatening to kill, assault with intent to injure and four counts of injuring with intent to injure.
Police prosecutor Sergeant Garry Wilson said there had been several abusive assaults on the victim between August 21 and August 24.